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Anyway after we kissed (I pulled away
first... see I'm learning already) I walked her to the taxi door and she said thankyou for a grat evening and (word perfect) *If I didn't have a boyfriend, I'd go out with you*. Which is of course a compliment, but I honestly didn't know she was involved and didn't press the issue for tfear of ruining the mood. I don't believe in breaking up relationships, because I believe in the sanctity of them (maybe this makes me too much of a Nice Guy, but that's what comes from having parents who were married 25 years unitl death did do them apart) So anyway, I'm just writing to say THANKYOU!!!!!!! because you gave me the confidence to go out and get, and like you say in the Confidence Treadmill part of the book, the best way to get confidence is go out and do it, and that should get me on an upward spiral leading all the way to the top baby, yeah!!! (sorry, Austin Powers moment there... too much sugar I think). That's all for now, but again thank you because as you also say *every girl is preparation for the next*, and now I know I can do it once, its given me such a boost this morning, and I'm smiling like the Cheshire Cat! |
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Yes, because it boils down to 2 things:
Women are attracted only to the men who are a “challenge”- often, the biggest challenge to a woman is when she meets a man who is NOT interested in her, and who often dumps her. There are PLENTY of nice guys who these women could easily have, they just don’t want them. Second of all, the sob stories women tell you are mostly just a way to get the IGNORANT MEN, which is most men, to feel all SORRY for the “virtuous woman” and to make HIM exclusive to HER, but not to make HER exclusive to HIM. |
Guys, check out this email I got:
*I was just reading your articles online and you are a real asshole. Glad to know you are giving other men advice on how to manipulate women. Treating someone with respect will go alot father than... What a loser! (Laurel)* Wow, that was a simply STUNNING argument. When you learn how to spell and complete your sentences, you may want to give me a phone call. I'll bet that you're not getting a whole lot of action right now, anyway. I love it when I get emails like this, because they just prove what I'm doing. First of all, that you can never make everyone like you, and second that many women are inherently unable to see that this is not about *respect* or manipulation of women. |
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What you are about to read is not conjecture. I didn't make it up or dream it up. It is based on my ACTUAL experimentation in the REAL world. And not just one day's worth. I'm talking YEARS of testing this stuff.
Super gorgeous women are not necessarily attracted to guys with cars, big houses, a sense of humor, or anything else PER SE. And they are actually NOT particularly attracted to JERKS, per se. What women ARE attracted to is something that I call SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE. SIV for short. It's got nothing to do with cars or any other external object. SIV's are the INTRINSIC personal abilities and traits that are considered superior by a woman's biology and ALSO by the society to which she identifies with. |
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SHE had a lot of promise. You understand that she is the one that has to prove herself to YOU. NOT the other way around. Too many men go around with the smell of approval-seeking on them and then wonder why they aren't getting anywhere.
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